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November -
December 2005 The Sabbath Sentinel
Laying Hold of
Destiny
by Dr. Daniel Botkin
The failure to lay hold of destiny is the tragedy of every
generation. Ask people in this present generation to define a
successful life, and the majority of them will describe a life
marked by little more than self-preservation, adequate comfort,
and a sufficient amount of fun and pleasure. Most people see no
deeper purpose for their lives beyond the fulfillment of these
temporal desires. As a result, they live shallow, trivial lives
and never attempt to live up to their full potential. They die
without ever releasing the treasures which are stored in their
souls, and humanity is thus deprived of untold benefits and
blessings.
How does a person lay hold of his destiny and find the
determination and faith to fulfill that destiny? As time-bound
creatures, we experience life in the present, past, and future.
There are three keys needed to unlock the door of destiny, and
these three keys relate to the present, the past, and the future.
The first key is experiencing the terror and the thrill of
existence in the present. The second key is overcoming failures
of the past. The third key is breaking the chains of low
expectations for the future. Let's consider each of these keys.
The Terror and the Thrill of Existence in
the Present
Experiencing the terror and the thrill of existence in the
present gives a person a vision of destiny. Allow me to share
from my personal experience to demonstrate what I mean by the
terror and the thrill of existence in the present. At a family
reunion a few years ago, my uncle gave me a copy of our family
tree. A relative had done extensive genealogical research and
traced some of our ancestry all the way back to the 11th century.
I keep my copy of our family history tucked away in a filing
cabinet, but occasionally I take it out and glance at the names
of my long-dead ancestors. It reminds me that I owe my existence
to every one of these individuals. I am obligated to them, as
well as to God, to fulfill the purpose of my existence in this
present generation.
The terror and the thrill of my existence come when I consider
the great number of events that had to transpire over the
centuries to bring me into existence. Every link in the chain of
my genealogy was necessary to produce the unique individual that
is me. Any number of things could have happened in the lives of
my forefathers to break one of the links in the chain. A
different decision about something as mundane as where to live or
where to work could have resulted in a different spouse or a
premature death for one of my ancestors. My existence could
easily have been aborted centuries ago, but it wasn't. Just the
fact that I am here in the present fills me with a sense of
wonder and godly fear. It thrills my soul, because I realize that
my Maker brought me into existence in this generation for a
reason.
Mordecai the Jew knew that Esther had been brought into existence
in her generation for a reason. When the Jewish people in Persia
were in danger of annihilation, Mordecai urged Queen Esther to
intervene. Mordecai closed his appeal to Esther with these words:
"And who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for
such a time as this?"
We each need to realize that we have been brought into the world
"for such a time as this." God put each one of us into
this current period of history. He was the One who decided when
we would be born. It was His will that we be alive in this
present generation, not in a generation of a hundred years ago or
a generation of a hundred years from now. He has a destiny for
each one of us to fulfill in this generation. We may not see the
purpose of our existence in our own lifetime. Ruth, the great
grandmother of King David and ancestress of the Messiah,
certainly did not see the full picture of her purpose in her own
lifetime. Yet when she made the decision to leave Moab and join
herself to the God of Israel and to the people of Israel, she set
out on a path which led her to the fulfillment of a glorious
destiny.
Like Ruth and like Esther, we each have a reason for being here
in our generation. Whether we fill a major or a minor role in the
big picture is beside the point. The point is that we each have a
role to play. Whether we are small or great, we each have a
purpose, just as every part of the human body has a purpose.
The simple fact of our existence in the present should be all the
proof we need to convince us that God truly does have a plan for
us in our generation.
Seeing this truth will cause us to experience the terror and the
thrill of existence in the present. This is the first key needed
to unlock the door of destiny. This key opens the door wide
enough to let in the light of revelation concerning destiny.
Merely seeing the light is not enough to take us through
destiny's door, though. We need to have the courage and the
confidence to go forward and walk in the light. To do this, we
need the second key, overcoming the failures of our past.
Overcoming the Failures of our Past
We need to overcome the failures of our past and the crippling
influence they bring. Some people who see the light have a
pensive longing to go forward and lay hold of their destiny, but
they find themselves paralyzed by kakorrhaphiophobia
the fear of failure. Because they failed so many times in the
past, they are afraid to use their talents and abilities to
attempt any noble endeavors. Rather than risk the disappointment
and humiliation of another failure, they settle for less than God
has for them. Like the servant in the Biblical parable who buried
his talent, they say, "I was afraid," and these three
words become their epitaph.
Overcoming the failures of our past can be difficult. Failure is
usually a very depressing experience. Our goals and hopes and
dreams do not materialize, and we feel ashamed, inadequate, and
humiliated. It is normal to feel disappointed when we fail at
something. However, it is not necessary to let ourselves be
emotionally crippled or paralyzed by our failures. One failure
does not mean that we are doomed to fail at everything we try.
We can try again, even if we have to set new goals that are
entirely different from the goals we had originally hoped to
reach.
Many of the great achievements of history were accomplished by
people who had failed many times before they succeeded. Abraham
Lincoln experienced many political defeats before he became
President. Thomas Edison's perseverance in the face of repeated
failures gave the world the electric light. The early sermons of
the great evangelist D.L. Moody were so pathetic that a friend
told him he would best serve the Lord by keeping quiet. The Bible
records the stories of many men who failed and made a comeback.
Moses' initial efforts to deliver the Israelites from Egypt
resulted in exile for Moses. Forty years later, he returned to
Egypt with the power of God. The Apostle Thomas was rebuked for
doubting the testimony of the witnesses who had seen the risen
Lord, but Thomas later went on to carry the gospel to India,
where he died as a martyr. Peter boasted to his Lord, "I
will never deny you!" Yet he denied knowing his Master three
times. About two months later, though, Peter boldly proclaimed
the message of the Resurrection to a large crowd of stunned
onlookers, and about 3,000 people were baptized that day as the
result of Peter's preaching.
Whether our past has been marked by moral failures, business
failures, or political failures, failure can be overcome. The
solution to overcoming failure is not some hidden secret. The
solution rests in simple things like admission of wrongdoing,
acceptance of God's forgiveness, trust in God's guidance, and
old-fashioned perseverance. Regardless of the mess we have made
of things, our heavenly Father is able and willing to forgive us
if we acknowledge our sins and repent. He is able and willing to
help us succeed if we are willing to try again. Accepting God's
forgiveness for our sins sets us free from the baggage of our
past so that we can go forward and trust Him to help us lay hold
of our destiny. Before we can walk in the fulness of our destiny,
however, we need the third key, breaking the chains of low
expectations for the future.
The Chains of Low Expectations
The chains of low expectations are like the chains used to
tether elephants by the feet. If an elephant born in captivity
gets accustomed to having his foot chained to a stake in the
ground, he will continue to be restricted by the chain even after
he has grown strong enough to break free. Since the elephant's
infancy, the tug of the chain has told him that he has gone as
far as he can go. He is programmed to believe that he has reached
his limit when he feels the tug of the chain. When he becomes an
adult, he does not realize that he has grown powerful enough to
break the chain. So he believes the lie of the chain for the rest
of his life.
Some people are like chained elephants. They are totally unaware
of the increased strength that the maturing process has brought
to them. They accept the limitations that past weaknesses had
imposed on them. When they try to go forward to lay hold of their
destiny, they still feel the tug of the chain. The chain tells
them, "No, this is as far as you can go. Forget about doing
anything noble. Just be content with your own survival and
comfort and a few pleasures in life." This message of the
chain is often spoken through the lips of well meaning people who
have low expectations of us.
The strength needed to break the chain of low expectations is a
strength that builds up one day at a time. One is a small number,
but we need to consider the power of one - one prayer, one step
of faith, one day of growth, one ping pong ball. Yes, one ping
pong ball. Let me explain with a true story. Years ago a boat
sank and was stuck in the mud at the bottom of the sea. The owner
of the boat offered a generous reward to anyone who could salvage
the boat. Several people tried to raise the boat but failed.
Finally, one man came up with an ingenious idea. He ran a
flexible tunnel from the surface to the sea floor and attached
the end of the tunnel to the sunken boat's hull. Then from the
surface he fed thousands of ping pong balls into the tunnel and
forced the ping pong balls into the hull of the sunken boat.
Eventually, the accumulation of ping pong balls reached
"critical mass," and the boat was lifted out of the mud
and rose to the surface. One ping pong ball by itself could not
free the boat from the mud, but the power of one ping pong ball,
combined with enough other ping pong balls, provided the
accumulation of power needed to pull the ship out of the mud.
Maybe one day of spiritual and emotional growth will not give us
the strength we need to free ourselves from the weaknesses that
have us stuck in the mud. If we continue to mature, though,
eventually we can grow strong enough to break free. There will
come a day when we are powerful enough to break the chains of low
expectations. If we give up and resign ourselves to a lifetime of
weakness and defeat, we will never know when that day of
potential victory arrives. We will be like the elephant that
remained chained to his post because he did not realize he had
the power to break free. We must not base our expectations for
the future on the weaknesses and limitations of our past. We do
not need to limit ourselves to other people's low expectations of
us. We can break the chains and prove them wrong.
The past belongs to our ancestors, the future belongs to our
descendants, but the present belongs to us. What we do in the
present will have eternal consequences. Let's make the most of
it while we are here.
Reprinted from "Gates of Eden," September-October
2005, p. 8. "Gates of Eden " is a bimonthly newsletter
produced by Gates of Eden, a messianic Jewish ministry. Write to
Gates of Eden, P.O. Box 2257, East Peoria, IL, 61611-0257.
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